Hey Budget babes
It’s been a while …I know it’s been a minute since we talked about relationship advice, goals, or even what we truly want in a potential partner.
It has been known that when it comes to dating, getting to know someone, and especially committing to someone is a major challenge these days. I know this pandemic has made dating somewhat hard. Most people want someone for a moment but are not ready to go all in. I know for me I am ready to go all in it’s just the matter of finding the right guy to go all-in with. I have struggled these past decade dating. Yes, I said decade… Men in my generation and some older men are into playing games and living life without being tied down to one person. They want their freedom to go and come as they please. That is not going to fly.
With all this being said …you can stop wasting your time with those people that don’t value you or your time.
The major question when it comes to dating is are you ready to commit? That is a big question I know. We all struggle with this. At the end of the day, we all want a relationship with someone we can trust in our lives. We all want marriage. We struggle to wonder if we are truly ready for it. With me dating and being in situationships with a guy I came to realize not everyone wants or is ready for a commitment. Being committed it making sacrifices and compromising yourself to be with that person.
Nowadays women often seem that they have to alter themselves to get attention or to be what the man desire. Compromising your belief in God, the way you live, even yourself just to be happy with someone is not the way. You don’t even know if they want to be with you or they are just enjoying the moment. Take my advice just be yourself don’t change for anyone.
Being in a relationship is what you want. You dated this person a while to know ok this is it. STOP First and please ask yourself these questions before you decide to change your life.
- Can I live with this person for the rest of my life?
- Is this person the right person for me?
- Will, this person loves me, my kids and my family?
- If sickness or tragedy will they be there always?
- Do this person share the same values?
- Can this person and I grow at the same pace?
- Can this person handles without judgment?
All these are great questions to ask yourself. If your answer is NO for a majority of them. Honey runs away fast because he is not it. Now, if a majority of your answers are YES. Then baby goes ahead and keep living your best life. Now, if most of your answers are mixed up and you are all confused about what this relationship is. Then sweetheart focuses on you and reprocesses to get a better understanding of what you want and what you value most.
I hope this was helpful. Until next Be You Live Life and Glam on a Budget.
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