Hey Budget Babes,
Well, it’s been a whole year since we last connected. Time flies, doesn’t it? As we enter this new year, it’s a great opportunity to reflect on the past and set our sights on the future. The past year may have brought its fair share of challenges and triumphs, but here we are, ready to dive into today’s topic. Let’s make the most of this fresh start and embrace the possibilities that lie ahead.
I am back with some more advice, or I might say some repeated advice on dating, relationships and just living life. Well, I am not a therapist, but this is like therapy for me. I just like to share my tips and experiences with those women who just like to read about someone else’s drama.
With me I have dated guys over the years. I came to realized I was attracting to the same guys in a different form. I say this because I needed to understand what I need and want in a man so I can stop attracting bum guys. I hate to say that, but it is true. I was attracting guys that barely worked, no cars and lived at home with mom and dad. I was dating the type of guy that I had to fix up like a project. I am truly done doing that.
With the process of dating, I encountered countless toxic people in my life. I didn’t feel confident in myself at that time in my life. Most of this did results from a past relationship that I never had closure from. Now hear me out I know you questioning what that has to do with anything. Well with me I dated a guy in college for 7 years and we were planning to get married. It never happened because something changed that changed the course of our relationship. It changed for the worst. I won’t get in detail of what happened just know that after that experience It changed my outlook on dating. Finding myself and getting to know myself all over again. It hard believes me because you get comfortable. When you comfortable you forget things can change in a blink of an eye.
With all that being said I have 4 Ts to share if the person you are dating is for you.
- TRUST (must have) Having trust in the person you with is a step closer to knowing that the relationship can work and be long lasting
- TIME INVESTMENT (get to know the person) If that person taking the time to call you, spend time with you, make time with no excuses, and enjoys time with you.
- TRUTH (I don’t need to know your representative the real you) you show your true self. Being open honest and not withholding significant information.
- TRACTION (a process is my life getting better and New Opportunity). You are willing to grow together; the person is making you better.
Discovering the 4T’s of intentional dating is an important step towards meeting and exploring oneself, with the ultimate goal of finding a soul mate. These 4T’s – Time, Truth, Traction, and Trust – provide a solid foundation for building meaningful connections. By dedicating time to getting to know oneself and others, being truthful in communication, being transparent about intentions and expectations, and building trust through consistency and reliability, one can navigate the dating world with intentionality and purpose. This approach increases the chances of finding a compatible partner who shares similar values and goals, creating the potential for a fulfilling and long-lasting relationship.
Until next time Budget Babes♥️
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